From a very young age we’ve relied on the feedback of others, positive and negative, to learn the beliefs and behaviours that define us. Now that’s a good thing … until that feedback does us harm.

Perpetua was a young noblewoman and new Christian convert living in Carthage, North Africa, in the 2^nd century AD. During Emperor Septimius Severus’ persecution of Christians, she was arrested along with others. She had a newborn child; her father pleaded with her to renounce Christ,  yet still she stood firm.

In her prison diary she wrote of visions from God and her deep peace, despite her impending death. On the day of her execution she encouraged fellow believers in the arena, before being killed by wild beasts and the sword. Her unwavering faith became a powerful witness to the early church.

Sure, that’s extreme, but here’s the point: not everyone will give you positive feedback about your goodness, your uniqueness, and especially, your faith. Said Jesus to His followers:

John 15:18-19 If the world hates you, remember that they hated me first. If you belonged to the world, the world would love you as it loves its own people. But I have chosen you to be different from those in the world. So you don’t belong to the world, and that is why the world hates you.

Yes, social feedback plays a big role in shaping us. But the people around you aren’t perfect. They make mistakes. They don’t always have the purest of motives. So be careful, very careful, of constantly seeking validation from a world that crucified a perfect man.

That’s God’s Word. Fresh … for you … today.